As you’ve heard, we’re moving to Lund, Sweden for the next two years! In addition to all the boring stuff we have to do (like packing), we get to do some really fun stuff like purchase guidebooks and start our Sweden Bucketlist! In fact, we’ve already started our list. Check it out below!
A few weeks ago, I announced our move to Lund, Sweden in August. With only a few weeks left, I’m in preparation mode. The most common question I get asked is: “How are you going to take all your stuff?”, The answer is simple: I won’t. Continue reading “Packing for an International Move: 3 Must-Read Resources”
I have mentioned my grad school program a lot, but never took the time to explain exactly what it was or what I did. Check out the infographic below to learn more about this transformative experience.
It‘s no surprise that the overwhelming majority of my travel has been to urban destinations. Whether it’s Dubrovnik, Istanbul or Beijing, I’m pumped and ready to explore every square inch of each city. I want to see, eat and experience everything. But experiencing a city like a local takes a lot of planning. Other than what to see, what routes to take and, of course, where to eat, the single most important part of travel planning is packing the right things. That’s right. Forgetting an umbrella can make or break a trip, as can sunburn, sea sickness or an uncharged camera.
So before you pack for your next urban escape, check out this list of must-pack items. You wont be disappointed.
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Some ask me why I constantly hit the reset button on life and commit myself to living (for extended periods of time) in cultures and places I know nothing about. This is my response to those people.
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GLOBAL LIFE UPDATE
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During our year in Turkey, we spent lots of time reflecting on where we were at and where we wanted to be. For those of us in our early 30’s, planning for the future is no joke. We have to seriously think about saving for a house, retirement (yes, RETIREMENT!), aging parents and starting a family! You can easily get away with not caring in your 20s (although that’s strongly discouraged), but in your 30s, it’s wise to plan ahead.
For my husband and I, we yearn for further advancement in our careers, growing our family and, of course, more travel! So after lots of hard work, dreaming, saving money and planning…our dream came true.
Yup. That’s right. We’re moving. AGAIN! Over the next months, I’ll reveal what we’ll be doing in Sweden and how it’s all possible–financially, professionally and logistically.
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What are you doing to make your dreams come true?
Over the years, I’ve accepted paid and unpaid positions and plan to continue this trend in the years to come. But with nearly a decade of professional experience and a master’s degree under my belt, some might wonder why I’d ever accept unpaid opportunities. This post explains my logic.
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Learn New Skills
If you’re wise, you’re always reading up on your field and trying to identify the new tools and skills necessary for success in your area. Since an employer is less likely to hire you for a position you have no experience in, unpaid work opportunities will give you a chance to not only learn new skills, but build up a track record you can reference in job interviews.
Expand Your Network
With each new experience comes new networking opportunities. And what better way than by volunteering your time and connecting with a whole new group of people. Think about it. There’s your new boss, your new co-workers, clients, companies your organization works with, etc. That’s a whole lot of networking!
Many of us are stuck in a place where we aren’t yet earning money from our passions. Until that day comes (and it will), you have to stay inspired. Taking on unpaid work is a great way to do what you love on a regular basis.
Avoid a Gap on Your Resume
When you live a nomadic life, you’re constantly moving around and starting over. If you’re lucky, you’ll leave from one job and immediately start another. But the reality is that most of us don’t. To avoid those unwanted gaps in your resume, consider taking on freelance or unpaid work. As long as the experience is relevant to your field, it won’t be a problem that it’s unpaid.
Having said that, the reality is that, while avoiding gaps in your resume is extremely important, it’s even more critical to develop expertise in one or two professional areas. When you travel and move, you’re constantly changing jobs and locations, which may make employers question your expertise. By complimenting paid work with unpaid work in your field, you strengthen your professional profile. This will allow you to continue developing yourself into an expert in the field and round out your professional profile while continuing your globetrotting life.
EXPERT TIP: If money is a concern, only take on part-time unpaid work and use your other time for paid work which may not enhance your resume. When you organize your resume, replace ‘Work Experience’ and ‘Volunteer Experience’ with ‘Relevant Experience’ and list all your paid and unpaid experiences there. Remember, your resume is to showcase your skills as they relate to the job you’re applying for. It’s not meant to be a time line of all your paid work experiences.
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What are some other benefits of unpaid opportunities?
Howdy Travel Addicts!
I’ve been MIA for awhile, but I haven’t forgotten about you. In March, we left our amazing adventure Teaching English in Turkey and headed on a 23-day trip westward. We spent our time exploring the Adriatic cities of Bosnia, Croatia, Slovenia, attending a research seminar in Italy and visiting family England. Upon return to the USA, we spent time visiting family and friends in the Midwest.
Two month later, here’s where we’re at:
We’re readjusting to life in the US. While it’s amazing to be close to family and friends, it’s a bit awkward to answer the extremely loaded and complex question “How was Turkey?”. I still haven’t written about your experience post-departure because I’m still struggling to find the words to accurately express how the experienced changed me.
We’re dabbling in freelance work. Between odd jobs here and there, continuing to grow Longing to Travel, pubic speaking engagements, helping others grow their business and simply taking on work to learn new skills, we’re staying busy. We deeply miss our students and colleagues and Turkey and have unsuccessfully attempted to fill that void by taking on teaching ESL lessons here in the US. So far, it doesn’t even compare to the incredible relationships we built with our students over the course of the last year. But we’re staying open-minded.
We’re preparing for our next adventure. I can’t quite spill the beans yet, but we have some BIG news to share. Our lives will drastically change (again!) and we’re over the moon about it. As in all things, this next chapter will bring about great joys and challenges, test our courage and strength, and, above all, help us contribute to the world around us. Stay tuned. You won’t want to miss this announcement.
With that, I want to thank everyone who has supported Longing to Travel over the past year and half. I have had the opportunity to work with many individuals wanting to live an authentic life of travel, which is non-traditional and complex in nature. To all of you out there, don’t give up. Dream BIG. Stay focused. It’s possible because I.AM.LIVING.OUR.DREAM. And you can too!
– Pouneh Eftekhari, Founder at Longing to Travel
I grew up with many cultural influences in my life as well as multiple religious influences. This blend of cultures an religions has been a blessing and part of my identity. It even because the pillars for planning my wedding and marriage.
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A little Background
I was raised in Wisconsin with the teachings of The Bahá’í Faith, the youngest of the world’s independent religions. Its founder, Bahá’u’lláh (1817-1892), is regarded by Bahá’ís as the most recent in the line of Messengers of God that stretches back beyond recorded time and that includes Abraham, Moses, Buddha, Krishna, Zoroaster, Christ and Muhammad. The central theme of Bahá’u’lláh’s message is that humanity is one single race and that the day has come for its unification in one global society.
My upbringing in my predominantly all-white, Christian region of Wisconsin was complimented by the traditions of the Iranian culture–language, food and music. While there are too many things to write about the Iranian culture, let’s just say I came home from school once to find a slow-cooker full of sheep’s brain. No joke. So as you can imagine, growing up was a juggling act between regular kid problems and managing these cultural and religious differences.
Boy Meets Girl and then Get Married
Fast forward to college where I met my now husband. I wish our story was as simple as ‘Boy Meets Girl and then Get Married’, but it was not. Boy met girl. Boy dated girl. Boy and girl moved to opposite ends of the planet for a few years, then found one another again and got engaged. While the details of this almost decade-long relationship aren’t important, what is important is to acknowledge that I found the most Midwest guy who, incredibly enough, embraced my multi-layered identity so much that sometimes I think he’s more me than I am!
Marriage and Family Life
Our wedding was a mix of all the various parts of us: Iranian, American, Bahá’í and Catholic. We chose parts of each culture/religion and adapted it into what made our wedding ceremony uniquely us.
We chose to get married in front of a sofreh aghd, a traditional Iranian wedding spread. There are various items one can include as part of the sofreh aghd, which represent different things like fertility, health, wealth, love, etc.
We also incorporated another Iranian tradition which is calls for a piece of fabric to be held (by women) over the heads of the bride and groom. The tradition calls for happily married women to grind cones of sugar over the heads of the bride and groom in order to ‘shower them with sweetness’. (Don’t worry, the cloth was over our heads, so no sugar fell on us!)
Simple Vows and Ceremony
“We will all, verily, abide by the will of God.”
After that, in true American and Iranian style, we celebrated! There was food, a father-daughter/mother-groom dance, our first dance and of course an all-night dance party which included music from around the world.
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Have you been to a wedding that incorporated other cultural or religious elements?
If so, we want to hear your stories and see your pictures!
For more information about the Baha’i Faith, visit: www.bahai.org
(Italicized Content Adapted From Here.)
FACT: I have moved 14 times in the past 12 years…with at least another move scheduled for late 2015!
To say that I’m an expert at moving is quite the understatement. I’ve learned to pack a carry-on for a 10 day trip; a medium-sized suitcase for a year abroad; and, like a game of Tetris, have learned to pack up a whole apartment into just a few boxes. What I have yet to master is the art of saying farewell to people I’ve met while living abroad.
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Until you’ve lived abroad for a considerable amount of time (longer than just a year abroad), you can never fully understand how much the community you’re surrounded by impacts your global experience. It’s those people—the generous and hospitable people who welcome you into their lives–that make it impossible for me to leave my home abroad with dry eyes. Leaving Turkey was no exception…here’s why:
Living Abroad is Like Being a Child Again
No matter how old you are, how experienced you are or how adaptable you think you are…you’re not. When you move to a new place, you have a whole new infrastructure, set of social norms, language and culture to learn. This means you’re back at step one, trying to figure out how to do basic things like buying shoelaces, ordering still instead of sparkling water and asking for directions. But with the help of friends, colleagues and, more often than not, kindhearted strangers, you will learn the ropes quickly.
Signing Documents Written in a Foreign Language Can Be Daunting
When you live abroad, you have to set-up a ‘real life’. This means finding a home, setting up utilities, registering with the local authorities, etc. Without the help of our friends and coworkers, I wouldn’t have had an easy transition into my new life abroad. I couldn’t have imagined singing official documents (i.e., immigration documents, housing or cell phone contracts, etc.) without the reassurance of a local I trusted. I also couldn’t have imagined trusting a doctor’s diagnosis without the stamp of approval from a local I knew held the same standards as I, an American, did.
Everyone get’s homesick. Everyone.
It doesn’t matter how long you’ve lived abroad. Sometimes you just miss home. I’ve found the times I miss home the most are when I am abroad and alone. Especially at night. So when the locals invite to me out for a coffee, to see a movie or to go for a walk, it’s those times when I feel less homesick. In Turkey we found nothing but gracious hosts who showed us the true meaning of Turkish hospitality. Whether it was our student who invited us into her home to break the fast during Ramadan; our co-worker who accompanied us to the many governmental offices to sort out or visa situation…on her day off, no less; the shopkeeper who gave us a whole cake for free simply because we were ‘guests in his country’; or countless other encounters we had with locals, it’s safe to say that we encountered enough hospitality to last a lifetime. These encounters made us feel like we were part of the local culture and community. An that made all the difference.
I’ve said it before, but it’s true: travel reminds me that the world is made up of good people. The more I travel, the more this is confirmed. But the only way I can continue meeting these amazingly kind souls is by saying goodbye to the one’s I already know. The one’s who have helped make so many places my home. This is why it never gets easier to say goodbye.